Uhm…….

12 Jul

Uhm…….

Posted July 12, 2017 by renxkyoko in my life, Random thoughts, Relationship. Tagged: Rant, relationships. 44 Comments

Uhm, guys…… the girl on my previous post…… * cough * that’ s me. * cough * and that’s my dog.

44 responses to this post.

Posted by aysabaw on July 12, 2017 at 5:10 am

ha ha ha seriously :p

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 5:48 am
  
  Seriously. * cough * ~_~
  
  Reply
  - Posted by aysabaw on July 12, 2017 at 5:48 am
    
    ha ha ha
    
    Reply
    - Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 5:49 am
      
      He he he
      
      Reply
Posted by disperser on July 12, 2017 at 5:13 am

The only question that matters is . . . is he dangerous? (the guy, not the dog)

I don’t mean to scare or worry you, but often humans are of the mind that “it can’t happen to me.”

If you deem this guy capable of violence, you need to take multiple steps (self-protection, legal recourse, contacting law enforcement, etc. etc., If you work in a place with open access, you should also inform your employer — assuming you are worried about physical retribution). Better to go overboard than regret it later.

As an aside, I’m sorry. No one needs these kinds of headaches and hopefully, it will pass without anything bad happening. But whatever you do, do not take it lightly and do not underestimate the capacity for people and things to go south.

It’s better to take more precautions than fewer and to be more cautious than needed.

That said, you know him best. Act accordingly.

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 5:38 am
  
  I think it has passed. It’s been 2 weeks , after all. I don’t think he’s dangerous, but who knows. I have to admit his reaction surprised me. Ive read and watched so many crime stories, so the thought did occur to me. So , no, I’m not taking it lightly. He did text to say ” sorry , Tay lor is yours, and I’m moving on. ” I’m quite relieved.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by TWWK on July 12, 2017 at 6:46 pm
    
    I’m glad to hear that it sounds like things are resolved. A breakup is a really difficult situation, especially if you don’t want it to happen, and so really emotional responses are to be expected.
    
    Reply
    - Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:40 am
      
      I know. ~_~
      
      Reply
      - Posted by TWWK on July 13, 2017 at 2:09 am
        
        Hehe
        
        Reply
        
        Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:43 pm
        
        ( ^__^ )
        
        Lessons learned. ( from real time, not from manga, he he )
        
        Posted by TWWK on July 13, 2017 at 4:01 pm
        
        Haha, well, that’s usually how we learn unfortunately.
- Posted by disperser on July 12, 2017 at 6:18 am
  
  Well, let’s hope so . . . still, I’d feel a lot more relieved if he got hit by a bus or fell off a cliff or ate some bad sushi.
  
  I mean, I don’t wish it on him, but neither would I mourn the loss . . . and yes, I would rest easier . . . unless you were driving the bus, in which case, I’d suggest get yourself a lawyer.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 4:37 am
    
    He thinks I threw him under the bus, anyways. * sigh *
    
    Reply
Posted by Sreejit Poole on July 12, 2017 at 6:10 am

So we need updates.

Reply
- Posted by Sreejit Poole on July 12, 2017 at 6:11 am
  
  Oh just read your previous comment. Glad he has calmed down, and leaving the dog with you.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 8:10 am
    
    Yes, he has. It’s such a relief. I feel bad for him, but what can I do ?
    
    Reply
    - Posted by disperser on July 12, 2017 at 8:12 am
      
      Get him a dog (a stuffed one, if he’s irresponsible) and learn to drive a bus, just in case.
      
      Reply
      - Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:38 pm
        
        I guess I should be the one to get a dog. I actually checked out some SPCA sites in the city. They have pictures of dogs that people can adopt.
        
        Reply
Posted by zdunno03 on July 12, 2017 at 7:01 am

I’m glad he apologized but keep your guard up anyway. And no need to cough. I assumed it was you.

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:33 pm
  
  Yes, I’m still keeping my guard up. Thank you for your concern.
  
  It seems almost everyone assumed it was me. aaargh . O_O
  
  Reply
Posted by Xena on July 12, 2017 at 9:19 am

I figured you were talking about your own situation. One reason is because when the restraining order issue was mentioned, you kinda, sorta defended him. Hold on to that text in the event you might need to prove that he surrendered the dog to you.

The best to you and your furry friend.

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 11:48 am
  
  I felt so awkward speaking in third person.
  
  Wow. You’re right. That’s evidence ! ! I didn’t think of that ! Thanks, Xena.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by Xena on July 12, 2017 at 12:29 pm
    
    Ren, I’m so sorry that you had that experience and I really hope that things work out well.
    
    Reply
    - Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:27 pm
      
      Thank you , Xena . Yes, I hope things work out well. He’s not a bad person, just someone who’s hurting, so I understand.
      
      Reply
Posted by D K Powell on July 12, 2017 at 11:42 am

Ah…I did wonder I must admit. i’m sorry you went through this. I’m sorry to say that this often happens – way too many times. I hope all is peaceful now and that you’re happy (and still have a dog 🙂 )

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 11:51 am
  
  I was surprised at his reaction, but I guess it’s okay now. What a relief.
  
  Anyway, thank you for the encouragement.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by D K Powell on July 12, 2017 at 8:26 pm
    
    There is no telling how people you thought you knew will react when a break up occurs. Sometimes they quickly become shitty 😕
    
    Reply
    - Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:16 pm
      
      I know. It’s human nature, I guess ? I’m trying to understand his reaction, and I’m just thankful he was able to convey his anger verbally,( although coming over to our house at 2 AM scared me a bit ……. I’ve read and watched so many crime stories that for a while then, so many possible ugly scenarios came to mind ) ……… Thankfully, he seems to have calmed down. I’m quite relieved, but I don’t take things lightly…… still watching my back. ~_~
      
      Reply
      - Posted by D K Powell on July 15, 2017 at 9:30 am
        
        I don’t blame you. I’m sure you’ve got it covered but if you want a private chat about it or whatever then do contact me – dkpowell.contact at gmail.com – you know what to do to make that a working email address right? Best wishes!
        
        Reply
        
        Posted by renxkyoko on July 15, 2017 at 6:45 pm
        
        Thanks !
        
        All quiet on the Western Front, and I hope it stays that way.
        
        Posted by D K Powell on July 15, 2017 at 10:06 pm
        
        Good to hear!
Posted by andy1076 on July 12, 2017 at 11:56 am

Ya, Stand your ground and since you’ve been paying for vet visits etc I feel it should be ‘YOURS’ not “HIS’ and for him to come at 2am! whaaaat!

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:21 pm
  
  The 2 AM thing scared me a bit, Andy.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by andy1076 on July 13, 2017 at 2:35 pm
    
    ya, I personally would of warned the cops, he does that again you’ll want to put a restraining order, I’m so not kidding :O
    
    Reply
Posted by Steve.... on July 12, 2017 at 3:01 pm

Feeling bad now….

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:23 pm
  
  It was pretty ugly, but everything’s fine now. Thank you.
  
  Reply
Posted by Tom Schultz on July 12, 2017 at 5:40 pm

all’s well that ends well. and i believe that in your locale, you are a pet “guardian,” not a pet owner. congrats!

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 12, 2017 at 6:48 pm
  
  Pet ” guardian ” is more appropriate, and so much nicer. Our dog is a member of our family. She’s not a thing that we ” own”.
  
  Reply
  - Posted by Tom Schultz on July 12, 2017 at 8:48 pm
    
    Agreed.
    
    Reply
Posted by John on July 12, 2017 at 10:40 pm

It was pretty obvious it was you and your dog. Usually when someone goes up to someone and says “a friend this or a friend that”, they are talking about something about themselves. 🙂

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 13, 2017 at 1:39 am
  
  That’s true. It was awkward .
  
  Reply
Posted by joey on July 13, 2017 at 3:51 pm

DAMN. I wish you the very best outcome!

Reply
- Posted by renxkyoko on July 14, 2017 at 3:36 am
  
  All quiet on the western front.
  
  Reply
Posted by Jay on July 18, 2017 at 1:21 am

Hope you and the dog are doing well.

Reply